The American radio DJ Larry Elder hadn't spoken to his father in over a decade. From age 15 to 25, he avoided him, feared him and resented him. In Larry's mind, his father was cold, ill-tempered and cruel - a man who ruled through fear and violence. The childhood memories were dominated by the sound of his father's belt and the feeling of walking on eggshells, never knowing when the next eruption would come. But at 25, Larry decided to confront him. He drove to his father's